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Q UOTE OF THE MONTH:
"Helping teens and emerging adults (and parents)
really, truly and existentially to understand this one and
only inescapable, awesome reality: "That they are from all eternity,
personally, absolutely and unconditionally loved by and reconciled
to God in Jesus Christ - and will only ever have real life by living
in and out from that reality."
- The last
challenge, offered by Christian Smith, Director,
The National Study of Youth and Religion at the
Youth Ministry 2011 Symposium
NEW at thESource
Almost every week something new is posted on
thESource. You can check it out, online, at
www.youthESource.com.
Young Adult Ministry
If you haven't already, check
out the Young Adult Ministry website:
www.lcmsYoungAdultMinistry.org.
TEENS AND TRENDS . . .
Teens Drinking Alcohol
... Teenage girls are now drinking alcohol
more than teenage guys. While boys tend to drink for fun, girls
drink to relieve stress and their worries. Prevention experts point
to the number of alcohol products that have been developed in the
past decade that make it more appealing for teenage girls to drink (Newsweek,
"Report Shows Teen Girls Are Drinking More Than Boys, for Different
Reasons," June 29, 2010).
Kids Owning Cell Phones
and more ... Young people are much more likely
to own mobile electronic devices today compared to young people five
years ago. Today, 76 percent of teenagers own an mp3 player or iPod
(compared to 18 percent of kids five years ago). Sixty-six percent
now have a cell phone, compared to 39 percent of young people five
years ago. Twenty-nine percent of kids now own a laptop computer
compared to 12 percent of young people a half a decade ago
(Generation M2: Media in the Lives of 8- to 18-Year-Olds, A Kaiser
Family Foundation study, 2010).
Too Many Teens Are
Bullied ... Nationwide, one out of five high
school students say they have been bullied. Teenage girls are more
likely to be bullied than teenage guys (CDC's Morbidity and
Mortality Weekly Report: Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance, June
4, 2010).
More Teens Have Hearing Loss ...
One out of five teenagers now has some type of hearing loss,
researchers report. This is a 31 percent jump since the mid 1990s.
Studies show that even a slight hearing loss can hurt kids in three
ways: through their social interactions (by not being able to hear
what peers say), language development, and school performance (USA
Today, "Study Is Loud and Clear: Teen Hearing Loss Rising,"
August 18, 2010).
Helping Teens Succeed
... Researchers have identified three key
strengths that teenagers need to succeed. They include: 1. Having a
spark (a deep passion or interest); 2. Having a voice (being able
to influence things that matter to them); and 3. Having
high-quality relationships that nurture their strengths
Unfortunately, only 7 percent
of teenagers have all three strengths. Seventy-six percent of
teenagers have none of the three strengths-or only one (Search
Institute and Best Buy, "Teen Voice 2010," 2010).
Savvy Teen Girls &
Cosmetics ... Teenage girls who use cosmetics
are learning that the FDA has tested only 11 percent of the 10,500
cosmetic ingredients used in the United States. While Europe has
banned more than 1,000 ingredients used in personal care products,
the United States has banned only nine. More and more girls are now
using personal care products that are natural and organic (No
More Dirty Looks by Siobhan O'Connor and Alexandra Spunt,
2010).
SKINS Controversy ...
MTV's new racy show "Skins" is everywhere. Not only did its premiere
episode attract more than 3 million viewers, it's been written about
in hundreds of newspapers, magazines and blogs. That's because
advertisers are dropping like flies; Shick, Wrigley, General Motors
and today, Subway, all pulled the plug. That makes seven so far. The
sexually charged show features high school students who routinely
have sex, drink alcohol and do drugs. . . .The Parents Television
Council asked the Department of Justice to investigate whether an
upcoming episode violates federal child pornography statutes. ...
Media expert Mark Joyella says all this controversy and all this
media attention may spell success for the sexually charged show, but
cautions parents, that if you're letting MTV teach your kids, you
might deserve what you get, "If you wait and let your kids find out
about sex by watching Skins, well, you've probably already made a
few mistakes down the road. And I don't think you can really fault
MTV for that." (January 24, 2011, WPIX-TV Web site, Cleveland, OH)
FINAL THOUGHTS ...
Christian Smith, in his presentation at the symposium said, "You get
what you are." In the "Skins" article from Teens and Trends above
the same thing, "If you're letting MTV teach your kids, you might
deserve what you get." All the studies show that parents are the
number one influencer in the lives of their kids. And you can
influence for good and for bad or for indifference. Never has there
been such a need for good, solid, faith-filled parenting. And never
has there been such a need for solid parenting education. What is
your church doing to train up Christ-centered, God-fearing parents?
It's a very haunting question.
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